
It has been 7 days since we returned from our week in the small village of Chanku Besi – I have sat many times blankly in front of the computer screen wondering where to start. How to appropriately capture the moments, the emotions, the surprises, the faces, the kindness. It is not an easy task, to be sure, but my hesitation is partly a yearning to be accurate with my words and leave unspoiled the vivid images that will live with me. I want to honour the wonderful people whom I met.
The village sat upon a long and incredibly steep set of rice terraces with my house being at the top of the village, shrouded by leafy trees, jungle, and orange trees. The cold was intense. The nights were pierced with winds whistling through the cracks in the mud and beam structure. I had the bedroom to myself while next stoor my new Nepali family (amaa, baa, bhai, and 2 bahinis) cuddled up in one bed. Mornings were spent with dawn hours around the small kitchen fire drinking chiyaa, laughing, and snuggling with the goats who lived downstairs.
From the doorway, the darkness inside fools one into thinking of dampness, dirt, and discomfort. But rather the house was immaculately clean and comfortable. The only discomfort was the blue stinging smoke during hours of cooking – no chimmney desired as the black soot covering the roof beams protect the wood from termites.
We spent a full 5 days living with our families and then abrubtly on the day of our community project we learned that there would be a bandha in the nearby town the next day – it was called for 3 days which meant we wouldn’t be able to get out in time for Christmas. There was concern for our safety and we had to make the difficult decision to leave that afternoon. It was a very difficult way to leave and with such a rush the goodbyes were not at all what we had meant them to be. With garlands of marigolds around our necks and thick red tikas on our foreheads, we departed. Sadly, heavily, and with much regret.
So rather than paint more pictures with words, I will gladly post some images of our brief and exciting stay in the village. My thanks to H-Bone who took all these photos and a whole bunch more, and painstakingly uploaded all of the them so that I was able to steal them 🙂 Photos from Rex and I coming soon too.



