Monthly Archives: October 2009

Honouring Fridays: October 30th, 2009

Happy Halloween! Nepal is not quite into the spooky, creepy crawly, bewitchiness that is Halloween.  However, that won’t stop us.  Tonight we are off to a Halloween party complete with pumpkin carving thanks to our dear Canadian friend Michelle. Costumes are hard to find so instead we opted for masks. Brilliantly feathered carnivale type masks were only 40 NPR at the local store (that is like 50 cents for anyone counting.) – we will look like owlets or birds I think.  And this weekend there will be pumpkin…oh yes.  I have my sights set of these delicious pumpkin donuts and perhaps a vat of pumpkin soup (of course kicked up a notch and flavoured with the cancer busting power of curry!).

  • Hearing the birds sing. I normally associate singing birds with the onset of Spring in Vancouver – that sprightly and excited bird chattering that pops up when the sun finally breaks through the clouds and rain for the first time.  But I have noticed lately in Kathmandu that the mornings and evenings are full of birds singing.  I think the rainy monsoon weather may have kept their songs hidden but the crystal clear and noiseless November days are perfect for a twitter of bird songs.  Nothing better than waking up to a beautiful blue sky day with birds singing – holds the promise of good things.
  • These. I covet these.  I only wish they had my size!  I am holding my breath and hoping that they will shortly stock my size but even if they don’t I still think they are a spectacular fashion find.  The ability to mix and match soles and tops, the recycled sari colours, and the multiple tying possibilities make them extra covet worthy.   I am clearly experiencing the “Oh my god I am leaving Nepal soon and will need to dress like normal not-so-sloppy adult…quick someone get me some cute sandals!”
  • The perfect job. Okay, so I haven’t yet found THE perfect job, but I sure have had some great jobs that came pretty darn close.  And this week, especially, I have realized how grateful I am for work that makes me feel good.  Loving my work is important to my overall life satisfaction – I am not someone who can work to live  – I live to work (and do something meaningful in the process).  So, as I consider the fact that I will be unemploymed in about 2 months (vagabonding around the world) I don’t think it is too early to send a quick reminder to those who are gainfully employed…I AM LOOKING FOR THE PERFECT JOB…STARTING AUGUST 2010…IN VANCOUVER…HIRE ME 🙂  If you know of a great job or someone who might want to hire me, just leave me a comment below.  It doesn’t have to be perfect…just close to perfect 🙂
  • Ayush. This week, my colleague Sujata brought her 2-year old, Ayush, to the office.  The plan was for him to play outside in a grassy patch out front of our office, while his nanny watched and we orked.  It sounded good, in theory but of course, Ayush had different plans!  He is a curious, precocious and active little guy who charmed me easily from my desk out to the grass to play.  I let Sujata work for a bit and we played catch with a ball for an hour or rather he kicked the ball and I chased it around the yard, much to his 2-year old delight.  So, needless to say, little work was accomplished that day – if we weren’t in the yard playing, he was jumping around our office pulling at various cables and cords, knocking things over, and investigating my laptop with his sticky fingers. There is a reason why 2-year olds and work don’t usually mix!  Fun for him, unproductive for us!  But for one day, just one, I was reminded just how fun it is to be 2, even when you are 30.

Honouring Fridays: October 23rd, 2009

As many people may have heard, my grandmother died last week. She was in her late 90’s and still managed to go for a swim everyday in Lake Okanagan, knit woolly booties for the new babies at the hospital, and spend as much time as possible with her family. Back in the day she was a talented figure skater, a baker of the most delicious fudge, and a practical joker of the highest degree. She took pleasure in stuffing home knitted socks with jaw-breaker candies as big as my head (at least they felt that big when my 10 year old eyes watched my Dad pull them out of his new socks on Christmas morning) and she could always be counted on for warm hugs, a great game of rummy (she cheated, but we all let her), and some laughs – she was always laughing.

  • Grandma Frances. So, this week I am the most grateful for my grandmother and the wonderful life that she was able to live. I can only hope that I have inherited an ounce of your kindness, a funny bone or two and perhaps a drop or two of your delicious fudge-making talents too 🙂  We love you and will miss you Grandma.
  • Ginger tea. During our 5-day trek in the hills and mountains, after climbing for 4-5 hours, we would reach the guest house exhausted and hungry. Dinner would usually be some warm and filling potato or egg dish but what we all looked forward to more than dinner was the steaming pot of ginger tea at the end of the meal. It was quite simple – black tea with fresh, chopped ginger and a splash of honey dumped into the pot. No infusion of ginger essence or synthetic ginger flavouring, just real fresh gingery hot tea. It was a warm hug before bed, a muscle rejuvinator before the next day of hiking, a chance to reconnect with family about how the day went, and a moment of calm, full-belly, peacefulness. I plan on making this concoction throughout the cold months here in Nepal to ward off H1N1, common colds, chest infections, and stomach irritations – even if it doesn’t work it will still bring me back to the cool crisp evenings in Nepal’s mountains sitting with family and sharing a wonderful pot of tea.

  • Rotisserie chicken. While my parents were visiting earlier this month we made a wonderful discovery. The small and unassuming toaster oven that graces my counter is also a rotisserie! In preparations for a small Thanksgiving dinner we had planned to roast a chicken in the toaster oven. I found some odd spear and dagger like instruments in the cupboard and starting putting the pieces together. On inspection of the oven, we discovered that lo and behold, the large spear-like apparatus rotates! AHA! Spear the bird, slap it on the rotating device and voila – rotisserie chicken – a zillion times better than any Swiss Chalet affair and truly Thanksgiving worthy. You can rest assured that we will be re-enacting this magical moment for Christmas dinner as well 🙂

  • Rekindling a love affair. Despite the fact that I sometimes take you for granted, I am reminded just how appreciative I am to have you. The sweetness of reconnecting feels good. It is also especially good when the object of affection is so steady, familiar, and altogether unchanging. When it can feel like you were never apart. And so I have rekindled my love affair. You keep me connected, give me entertainment, and suffer as pound out my weekly installments of gratitude and yet never have I once shown any appreciation for you…the tool. You may have lost the ability to hold any charge in your battery due to random power surges but you will always have my undying affection.

Back to it!

Well, I am back – one week late but I have already forgiven myself for that and hope you will too.

It was a spectacular vacation – hard to even know where to start in describing it all.  To ease myself back into the regular blog posts and writing I thought I would start with a quick tour through our vacation through the eyes of my mom.  During the trip, she wrote a 10-part series of elegant, descriptive, and thoroughly delicious emails about her experiences here – R is now uploading them to his blog and adding photos.  The first one is here. And the second one is here.  The rest will be coming over the next few weeks.

I will be back this Friday with my weekly gratitude post 🙂