Well folks, this is the beginning of the end. The beginning of my vacation (well, almost) and the end of working like a maniac…for a whole 4 weeks! We look forward to greeting my parents at the airport on Tuesday night and embarking on a trip to Pokhara, a short mountain trek, a bunch of small day trips around Kathmandu, and then a 9 day trip around Rajasthan in India. And with this adventure comes the great need to disconnect from my life in Kathmandu…just enough to clear the mind and rejuvenate the spirit.
So, this will be my final Friday gratitude post for the next 4 weeks. I may post some photos of our trip or the odd note during this time but will return in earnest with my weekly musings on things I am grateful for on Friday, October 16th. Until then enjoy the beginning of Fall – bake an apple crisp, buy a new sweater, and crush some dry leaves underfoot.
- XMind. On two instances over the past month I have needed to pull together a partnership map to show the connections between various stakeholders, community groups, partners, government, donors and volunteers. In non-development speak this is really just a complex organizational diagram that shows how any involved is connected to anyone else involved. After fiddling for some time with the PowerPoint org chart functions I quickly realized they were much too hierarchical for our holistic approach. So, off to the web to find something better (and free, and open source…of course!). Enter XMind, a great tool for mind-mapping of the complex and chaotic variety. Here is an example of what I was able to do.
- Dhaka topi. I have been taking more notice lately of the tradition Nepali caps that men here wear. Topi ithe general word for hat and dhaka is the cloth used to make traditional Nepali mens wear. When used together they refer to the hat worn when wearing the dhaka clothes. They are jaunty, colourful, and rather charming. Somehow, they remind me of time passed – I imagine what Kathmandu might have looked like years ago, with bikes being the main mode of transport, when colourful dhaka topis topped the head of every man riding a bike…it must have looked something like this.
- Sel roti. Sel roti looks like a large skinny donut. It is a sweetened rice flour bread that is deep fried and eaten with Nepali tea or with a snack of curried chick peas. I ate my first sel roti last week as they are a common snack around festival time. I have not yet had the guts to try and make them but if you want to give it a go, here is a good recipe. The slight crunch of the ground rice bits gives the texture of cornmeal and the sweet dough with the slight hint of banana flavour all drenched in a crispy greasy crust…delicious!
- The right amount of time. Enough time to appreciate, notice, and enjoy what is around you. Not so much time that you feel stuck and stagnant. Enough time to soak it all in. Not so much time to feel you might never make it to the end. Enough time to feel powerfully connected. Not so much time that powerful connections turn into resentful relationships. Just the exact right amount of time when everything makes sense.



